Ello ello ello! Now how are you beautiful humans doing? I hope you’ve smiled and laughed and gone to bed happy and satisfied! Life is a lot better when you wear such a stunning smile!
I’m so sorry that I haven’t posted in a couple of days! College can be quite challenging and that’s why I’m glad we’re on half term! I’m actually so busy this holiday though so I’m not exactly resting! Oh well!
Now there’s something I really really want to talk about and that is letting go. I’m sure a lot of us have been in that position where we struggle to just let go, move on and start the next chapter of their lives. Although I know how unbelievably hard it is to let go, it’s possible I promise!
I remember a few years ago, I was in a relationship with somebody who was like my first love so when they broke up with me, I was a state. And I know that there’s crying, overthinking and blaming involved when something like this happens…but who’s to say that we can transfer that into smiling, having a clear head and realising that things may just happen for a reason.
I watched a film a while ago and the male character was struggling with a break up and the fact she had moved away and so he saw a counsellor. The counsellor had some good advice and that was that time helps. And although it’s hard and painful, it does help and it does work. It’s normal to be upset and to react negatively right after it happens but why don’t we get up, brush ourselves off, wipes our eyes and smile. We smile because we realise that things will get better and things will/can look brighter, only if you let the sun in.
I believe that we are all destined to fall in love and meet our soul mate out there in the big wide world. Wherever they are and with whatever they are doing, I believe we all have one therefore we need to just wait until that other half enters our life. “You Gotta kiss a few frogs before you meet your Prince Charming/princess!”
I’m not saying it’s going to be easy but I am saying it will be worth it! We just need to remember that we have all our lives to find someone who makes us unconditionally happy and forever in love. I feel like I will meet mine in the future, and that’s it’s alright to not have that someone right now! I believe that being single, therefore independent is exactly what I need right now! I am proud to be independent!
Now I’ve had a few exciting days! I met Lauren Aquilina last night at her concert and she was a pleasure to go see, once again! I remember seeing her two years ago and she was amazing, as was she again last night! Her music really helps me to say what I find hard to voice! Her music is so relatable and speaks the truth! She is such a talented, inspirational young lady who should be proud of what she has achieved! (Plus she loves bourbons so she’s ticking all the boxes really!)
Now, I better go as I need to be up early tomorrow for Thorpe park! I hope this has helped you in some way and that you are feeling particularly happy! “Letting go is hard, but holding on is harder”
Keep smiling you stunning lot!
Until next time,