Are they really worth your time?

Over time, we come to the conclusion that some people just aren’t worth our time. Those people that ignore us and make us feel as small as an ant are the type of people we don’t need in our lives. When they are the reason we are crying in our rooms, does it come to a point that we realise enough is enough?

Memories are a magical thing. They are things that will never change, even in the people who were a part of that memory have. I know what it is like to have someone in your life that you share memories, secrets and love with but it can be just as quickly for a friend like that to also become a stranger again.

How you ever been walking down the street and someone you used to know, who once meant the world to you treats you like you’re nothing? It can make you overthink so much and we finally think “is this really worth it?”. Is someone who can make you feel this way really your time? You don’t need this unnecessary stress. In life, we come to realise how we need in our lives, and who doesn’t deserve to be in it.

In life, we tend to put a lot of effort into one person. We text them, we are there for them when they need somebody and we do so much to ensure this one person is happy. Ask yourself, do they return the favour? When you are going through a difficult time and need a shoulder to cry on, are they there? I see making an effort like a two way street and if they aren’t putting in the effort too, why are you bothering with someone who treats you like this?

I think one of the worst things is rejection and being ignored. When you and another person are as strong as anything and you think things are going well, they cut you off. They treat you like you are nothing. Worthless. I don’t think enough people know what it is like to ignore someone who needs you. I think a lot of people in this world would prefer to be told what is going on rather than being ignored and made to feel guilty. Be truthful, not arrogant. It is fine when there is a genuine reason but if it is because you are not interested, at least tell us.

There are some selfish people in this world who think it is acceptable to take us for granted. They ignore us and treat us like rubbish but yet when they need something they come running back. I think it is time to allow these people to leave our lives. I believe we need good, positive people to accompany us in this life, not people who give us nothing and make us feel crap about ourselves. Be careful who you allow to be in your life, not all of them are necessary. Remember, not everyone you lose is a loss.

“I know it hurts. When they have seen that message that you sent them about being really upset and have ignored you. Like why would they do that? They know we need them and the moment when they could help you, they run. I don’t understand that”

“It doesn’t help when there is so much going on in your life, and whilst everything seems gloomy, you cling onto that last hope that they will put the effort in with you. Why do you not reply? Why do you not care? Why do you act like this? If you want to drop me like a feather every time then pick me up when its your last option or when you are bored, keep walking because I have had enough”

This world offers us with many beautiful opportunities and spectacular people, along with challenging obstacles to overcome and difficult people. It is up to you to tell the difference between the two and walk your path with positivity. Added stress isn’t necessary and can be easily avoided when the negative people are out of your life and you are living, like really living.

Life is a gorgeous place, and each person’s life contains so much beauty. Don’t let those individuals pull you down. Stay above the surface and breath. Lose the people you don’t need in this world. They will soon realise that you were the best thing they had (Oh how they will realise)

We are all strong people who deserve to feel beautiful and positive. Focus on the people who are the reason for that smile you are wearing not the ones who burn out your light.

Until next time,



Reflecting upon an exam..

Hey guys! How are you all? Are you feeling happier now that summer is supposedly on its way? Are things going really well for you today? However you are feeling today, I hope it is as great as you!

Now I know it is the time of the year for school, college and university exams and I also know how stressful it can all be! You feel as though there is so much to know in such little time, you become bored when attempting to revise and you are feeling really unconfident for the upcoming exam…what do you do?

When exams are around the corner, there is only so many things you can do. As long as you put the work and effort in by revising and working hard, that is all you can do! When you walk into the exam feeling nervous and quite low about how it is going to go, try and remember how much effort you have put in. All those hours revising where you have tried your absolute best is something to bear in mind when you feel like you aren’t going to do well in the exam hall. All you can do is your best!

What about afterwards? When the exam invigilator tells you that your time is up and that one hour and a half is finally over. When you walk out think to yourself, have you tried your best? Did you read the questions properly and understand what was being asked? Reflect upon how you think it went but also remember that all you can do is your best. As long as you revised and put your all into the exam, that is all anyone can ask of you.

Exams are hard. Exams are super stressful and revision can be a pain when all you wanna do is sleep and relax. Just think that the effort and how it will pay off so very soon. Once all these exams are over you can unwind and know that you tried your best. Everything will be okay I promise! Think of the good times you can have once exams are finished!

I hope things are going well for you all and that a smile still remains on all your beautiful faces!

Until next time,


In this world, we all breath.

In this world, we all live in the same place and see the same things, but dream of such different things.

Angelina Jolie gave a very powerful speech the other day that I must share with you. If you would like to take a moment to watch it, if you haven’t already.


What this inspirational women says in this video is something a lot of us tend to forget in this world. When we are becoming agitated at our phones or moaning about being educated, we don’t take a moment to think about what others go through in this world, making us feel so much more happier for the life we were given. Think about it…We are healthy, we are given a free education and a good life. We live in a very fortunate society where dreams and ambitions have the potential to be pursued. That women who is staying in a refugee camp fearing for her life and her three children. Don’t you think this women has dreams and ambitions too? Except she has to push her dreams aside to ensure she and her children are safe.

I wrote a poem this morning regarding this issue. Let me know what you think of it.

Whether we are big or small
We breath
If we are running the tap but for no water
And if they are running for water but have no tap
We all breath
If that boy is making you cry because he was your world
There are others out there who cry because they have no world
You moan because you have nothing to give this world
But there are others who have so much to give, but aren’t allowed to take.
Is your bed not comfy?
That women who is in poverty bringing up three children has no bed
You see
There are millions of people out there who have
a desire for something better
whilst we are throwing a strop because we are getting up early to live
To have something others could only wish
We are fortunate
We have so much
But there is something we all do in this world
We smile
We laugh
We love
We breath

So when you have a free moment, take a minute to breath. Admire the sun and love what you have around you. Trust me, something we all have that we simply take for granted may be something others crave. We are such fortunate individuals in this world.

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So when we are considering our lives, count ourselves lucky. It could be much harder in someone else’s shoes.

Until next time,



Use your words wisely, they can hurt.

When something happens and it is something some of us may find funny, we use this situation to laugh and mock. We talk about it to our friends and it is the main conversation in the group. “This girl is ugly” “She is so pathetic” “This is so funny” but do we actually think of how this person might be feeling? Whilst we are on Facebook laughing and making fun of this person, they are currently crying into their pillow and you have absolutely no idea.

There are some people in this world, particularly teenagers who lack a lot of confidence. You’ve just noticed that they have put a new photo up and even if it may not catch your eye, you may have no idea what it took for this person to upload it. When someone does this, mocking and being cruel is not what this person needs. This person does not deserve this so think about what you are saying before you do because words are as sharp as knives and can truly effect another. Be careful.

I’ve realised recently just how harsh some people’s words can be. When someone smiles, laughs, puts a photo up or even talks to another person, there is always some people who are going to mock you for your actions. They make you feel as small as anything and the spiteful words cut you like a blade. When things get tough and people become upset, the last thing someone needs is others being horrible. It is not necessary at all so I just wish people understood the consequences of what they say, it hurts.

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words hurt forever



So when something happens and you are finding some humour in someone else’s pain, think before you speak and appreciate a person’s feelings. It matters.

Until next time,






The world is your oyster!


Hello all! How are you all doing? I am sorry I haven’t posted recently, it is hard to write in exam season time. I hope those who are also going through exams are feeling comfortable with how it is going and I also hope you aren’t too stressed. All you can do is your best and as long as you are trying your hardest and revising for the exams, nobody can ask more of you. (But don’t work too hard or you will burn yourself out! Make sure there is time to relax too)

Now whether you are older or whether you are younger, there are still so many people who don’t have which path to follow for their future. Some people do something they hate or something that they can’t see themselves doing in the future and I just want to let you know that it is okay not to know. There may be some people who are going through school and college to take them to where they want to go but there may also be others who have absolutely no idea. Maybe you have a job at the moment that you are doing but it isn’t something you want to always be doing. You may be in A levels but you don’t know why you are doing it because you don’t see a future in it.

My advice to you would be to do what you love but also something to get you where you may want to go. For instance, I go to college to do A levels and although it can be challenging, I know it is something I need to do in order to get me to my dream job. You may have to go through something that maybe isn’t the easiest thing but if it helps you get to where you want to go, it is something you will need to consider.

If you have no idea of what you want to do in life, why not explore? Find something fulfilling to do in the meantime to get you saving up some money. Do you want to go and visit some other countries? Do you want to go and do something you’ve never done before? Is there something you want to do because you know it will make you happy? In life, the world is your oyster so do whatever you want to do. Do what makes you happy.

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Nothing is impossible. Even the word itself says “I’m possible”. Just remember that whatever you do, you ensure that it makes you happy. We are all explorers taking adventures in this world. Do what you can, take risks and do what you love.

Until next time,