Over time, we come to the conclusion that some people just aren’t worth our time. Those people that ignore us and make us feel as small as an ant are the type of people we don’t need in our lives. When they are the reason we are crying in our rooms, does it come to a point that we realise enough is enough?
Memories are a magical thing. They are things that will never change, even in the people who were a part of that memory have. I know what it is like to have someone in your life that you share memories, secrets and love with but it can be just as quickly for a friend like that to also become a stranger again.
How you ever been walking down the street and someone you used to know, who once meant the world to you treats you like you’re nothing? It can make you overthink so much and we finally think “is this really worth it?”. Is someone who can make you feel this way really your time? You don’t need this unnecessary stress. In life, we come to realise how we need in our lives, and who doesn’t deserve to be in it.
In life, we tend to put a lot of effort into one person. We text them, we are there for them when they need somebody and we do so much to ensure this one person is happy. Ask yourself, do they return the favour? When you are going through a difficult time and need a shoulder to cry on, are they there? I see making an effort like a two way street and if they aren’t putting in the effort too, why are you bothering with someone who treats you like this?
I think one of the worst things is rejection and being ignored. When you and another person are as strong as anything and you think things are going well, they cut you off. They treat you like you are nothing. Worthless. I don’t think enough people know what it is like to ignore someone who needs you. I think a lot of people in this world would prefer to be told what is going on rather than being ignored and made to feel guilty. Be truthful, not arrogant. It is fine when there is a genuine reason but if it is because you are not interested, at least tell us.
There are some selfish people in this world who think it is acceptable to take us for granted. They ignore us and treat us like rubbish but yet when they need something they come running back. I think it is time to allow these people to leave our lives. I believe we need good, positive people to accompany us in this life, not people who give us nothing and make us feel crap about ourselves. Be careful who you allow to be in your life, not all of them are necessary. Remember, not everyone you lose is a loss.
“I know it hurts. When they have seen that message that you sent them about being really upset and have ignored you. Like why would they do that? They know we need them and the moment when they could help you, they run. I don’t understand that”
“It doesn’t help when there is so much going on in your life, and whilst everything seems gloomy, you cling onto that last hope that they will put the effort in with you. Why do you not reply? Why do you not care? Why do you act like this? If you want to drop me like a feather every time then pick me up when its your last option or when you are bored, keep walking because I have had enough”
This world offers us with many beautiful opportunities and spectacular people, along with challenging obstacles to overcome and difficult people. It is up to you to tell the difference between the two and walk your path with positivity. Added stress isn’t necessary and can be easily avoided when the negative people are out of your life and you are living, like really living.
Life is a gorgeous place, and each person’s life contains so much beauty. Don’t let those individuals pull you down. Stay above the surface and breath. Lose the people you don’t need in this world. They will soon realise that you were the best thing they had (Oh how they will realise)
We are all strong people who deserve to feel beautiful and positive. Focus on the people who are the reason for that smile you are wearing not the ones who burn out your light.
Until next time,