Sometimes, when we hear the words “I love you” and “I wont hurt you”, we believe exactly what we hear. We convince ourselves that although they may not have the best reputation or have the best past, we assure ourselves that the things they do say is the truth.
We end up getting hurt. We fall harder and harder because we don’t think they would be capable of hurting us because of the things they said. We are blind to their flaws and the imperfections. I believe that unless they show you what they mean as well as just using empty words, we never really know what they mean and what they don’t mean.
If someone loves you, I think they will prove it through actions rather than words alone. If somebody says they love you and care for you, they will show you. I think the expression “Actions speak louder than words” is very important in relation to this topic. Words can mean nothing when you don’t show someone how you really feel. If one person says they care for you, ask yourself whether they show you that. Do they kiss you on the forehead? Do they care for you whilst they are unwell? Do they hold you tenderly when you need it? Are the sensitive, careful actions there? Do they show you their feelings as well as telling you?
I feel that so many expressions are thrown around nowadays where the true meanings aren’t really thought of anymore. For example, when people say how much they love someone, do they really mean it to the person they are saying it too? Will the person believe your empty words if you have no intention of showing them how you really feel? Don’t hurt a person with your empty words just because you feel it will suit yourself to say them. You may end up saying something that you have no intention of meaning to the person who believes every word you say and takes it seriously and as a result, gets hurt. You cant even believe to imagine how much words can hurt when there is no meaning behind it.
If you are a person who is in a relationship with another person and you say lots of things that you do not believe in yourself, the other person may consume every word and hold onto it tenderly and lovingly. When one person spits out words like poison, another sucks in words like a heavenly taste. Do not say something to someone who will believe what comes out your mouth so seriously but will make you fall so hard. Do not hurt somebody just for your own personal gain.
People who believe in love and hold out for love will most likely believe in every word someone says if that person means a lot to them. One person may see joy and happiness in the pupils of their eyes yet another may see lust and emptiness. Don’t say something you don’t mean because your meaningless sentences may hurt another more than you know.
I hope you all like my Autumn cover background on my blog post. I felt my picture needed more of a change to match the season we are currently in. I hope everyone is feeling happy and contempt. If any of you have any suggestions on future blog post topics, please let me know as i would love to hear your ideas!
Until next time,