Going through life, we meet so many different people who become a part of our life. They may be there when we meet our first love or when family issues arise. Friends can be there for you through a lot. However, what happens when some people don’t like you? I have found that some people just don’t take to me and do not want to talk to me. Sometimes there may be a reason but other times, it can be because you have something they don’t have or they just don’t seem to like you. It is okay not to be liked by everyone, that can almost be impossible. My advice is that as long as you are happy, it shouldn’t matter whether you are liked by everyone or not. I have a handful of friends who I love with all my heart, and they are the people that I hold close to me and keep in my life. As long as I have them in my life, I don’t care whether that girl who I never really spoke to dislikes me.
In life, people can get jealous for many different reasons. You may have said something before and they didn’t like you so therefore hold it against you as a grudge. You may have upset or angered them for doing something without knowing or maybe they just didn’t have a good first impression. But I have learnt that not everyone can like me in life because there is always going to be people that dislike you for one reason or another. Don’t let it affect you so much because at the end of the day, the real friends and family members will love you for you and will be a big part of your life. I have finally realised that not everyone will like me for being me and they will ignore me. That is how it is I guess because it is hard to be liked by everyone.
I have been at school and college before and smiled at people who I thought were my friends and they just blanked me and ignored me. It is upsetting because it isn’t always clear what they are upset about and what you are supposed to have done, but sometimes you need to shake it off and let it go because otherwise you will dwell on it forever and wonder why. Why don’t they like me? Why did they ignore me? Why why why? Sometimes, that question can never be answered.
We will come across a lot of people in life that will make us smile and laugh and become our best friends. They are the type of people who you should treasure and hold onto. Those are the friends who will be loyal and kind and love you for you. On the other hand, there will also be those type of people who you meet once and begin to ignore you and just simply don’t take to you. Don’t always take it personally because there are some people who just don’t like you. Those people aren’t needed in your life when you have a great group of friends around you.
I have the best of friends around me who I adore and love with all my heart. They are the people who make my life so positive and lovely. Cling onto the great friends you have and block out the type of people that cause unnecessary drama and are negative people in your life. Do not allow them to pull you down. Hold onto the people that make you smile, not cry.
So in conclusion, not everyone wants to be your friend. Not everyone will like you and not everyone will take to you. I know this is hard for some people who want to be liked by everyone but if they continue to ignore you and treat you badly, do not allow that type of negativity in your life. It is completely unneeded.
Remember to carry on smiling and holding onto those good people in your life. Ignore the negative aspects that come up in your life. They are not needed. Don’t allow it to pull you down.
Until next time,