In life, I feel like there are so many things that occur and yet we have no explanation for them. Something may happen and we think “Why? Why did that just happen?” yet I believe that everything that happens to us is meaningful and will give us an answer at one point or another.
There has been plenty of things to happen to me in my life and there’s been plenty of occasions when I don’t know why it has happened. Later on however there comes an answer and we can begin to realise why something has happened. I think we should just allow something to happen and not dwell on why it has happened, but give time to realise the meaning of it.
In life, I believe we have a path. The path may change direction and the path may not be one that is straight but I feel it has a designed destination for us. This ending may not be expected and it may not be how we imagine it, but I believe that we walk along this path to end up somewhere that is planned for us.
So many things can happen to us where it has made us happy, sad, disappointed or relieved and yet we can ask ourselves why this has happened. A relationship ends or parents separate or you go through something unpleasant. It can be hard to immediately pinpoint an answer. I usually have no idea why something has happened until later on, it all makes sense. Something may happen to us that doesn’t make us feel good in the short term, but yet is what we discover to be helpful to us in the long term. Don’t question it when something happens, just let ourselves discover the meaning in time. Everything happens for a reason.
So as I sit here at university and I write this blog post, I think to myself “Is this the right decision for me?” and “Can I really do this?” yet I feel like the path that has been set for me has taken me on this journey and it will guide me to better things for the future. I feel like meeting all these people and doing the course that I am doing is what is right for me. It is something that I need to do and a journey I need to go on to lead me to my destination. It is going to be a bumpy road as it is not going to be easy, but yet it will make my future a lot brighter.
Sometimes when you sit down and think about things that have happened to you or you are going through something that may not have an answer yet, try and think that everything has a purpose. Everything we go through in this life is something that will help us and our future. We may not know that yet but it will benefit us in the long run.
For example, the relationship that you had which ended may of been difficult to overcome and hard to get through in the short term, but I think you discover why it ended. I was mortified when my relationship ended because it was completely unexpected, and you find it hard because all of those feelings are still there, yet after I gave it time, I think I realised why it ended and how much better it was for me to not be with that person. It can be very hard to find a reason to why something has happened, but for me I know it happened because now I am a happier individual that doesn’t have anything toxic in their life. It will make sense in the end I promise.
Until next time,